A Great Woman In The Making - My Birthday Note to Onome Igoru.



Onome, I know how special today is to you. And I feel it’s a good day to give you “a piece of my heart”. Today I will say in public most of the things I have said to you in private, at least you are old enough to handle it. You are no longer an adolescent like you used to be; you were just a “little girl”; less than 15years old, still in SS1 when I met you. Now you are gradually developing into a lovely lady and will soon become a full blown woman. Please, allow you to grow and develop gracefully, do not follow the trend.
May I remind you that you are a virtuous woman in the making. Be the person you truly are. Go after what you want. Sometimes what others want for us is not what we want for ourselves. Be honest with yourself. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being different. Be yourself and avoid distraction as much as it lies within your strength.

HONESTY is a rare gift, strive to be honest but don’t expect it from cheap people. Don’t compare your life with others and don’t judge them because you have no idea what their journey is all about. We might have similar struggles but grace differs.

TIME is very vital to our life. Always place a great value on TIME because our life is a summation of utilized and wasted times. When you waste money you get broke, but if you waste time you waste part of your life. Time also heals almost everything…no matter what it is GIVE IT TIME!

PRAY all the time; let me remind you that prayer fixes everything. The greatest battles of life are won on your knees.
Commitment is important to EVERYTHING you do, it will take you where skill and talent will not. Be committed to life in general.

LOYALTY is the single most important quality every man needs in a woman. Whenever you think you are ready for the challenge of marriage; make loyalty a part of you.

You may have heard that “love is blind”…do not believe that trash! Love is only blind for those who don’t care to see. But marriage is the real eye opener. Never fight another woman over a man. He knows who he wants. If he wants you he knows where to find you.

When you fall in love, (I know you will) sooner or later, always remember that love is a choice, not an emotion: As more years pass, you realize that each day you have to consciously choose to love. You cannot rely on the “emotional” feelings you had the first month you met.
Love is a commitment: You must resolve to love regardless. Marriage is not for kids, not for those who want to try if it will work or not. It is for those who resolve to make it work no matter the challenges.

Choose to focus on the good and not the weaknesses: We all have the bad side, but love must choose to focus on the good, on what is lovely, what is praiseworthy.
When you have challenges face them without fear. Everything you have ever wanted is on the other side of fear. Running away from your challenges is a race you can never win.

I want you to succeed beyond your expectations, I know how good a student and how devoted a Christian you are. Do not relent, God will crown all your efforts with good success.
Take time to ponder over this note and remain blessed. I hope you enjoyed your day? May Jehovah bless you richly with every good thing of life. 

Happy Birthday to my beloved student Onome.


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God bless you plenty.
Stay Blessed!
Ahaoma Charles Ebere 

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