YOU CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE


There is no self made man anywhere! As a matter of fact everything you know today you learnt from someone. Every man who has ever achieved anything in life received help. God’s help crowns a man’s little effort with outstanding success. Rather than sing your own praises, give something back to humanity, (to the world). The best way to do this is to make a positive difference and this doesn't require much; just allow your life to affect others positively. little acts of kindness can do the magic.

Many people believe that they don’t have what it takes to make a difference in the world. For them, they lack the spiritual and mental strength of Mahatma Gandhi, the kindness of Mother Teresa, the genius of Thomas Edison, Albert Einstein and the financial prowess of Bill Gates and Warren Buffet.
But hear this: every one of us is put in this world to contribute and make a difference including you. I hear you say "Me, little young me, how can I possibly make a difference. I am not important, or powerful, or rich, I am just an ordinary young person struggling to make a living. How can I make a difference? But what you failed to realize is that it doesn’t take a whole lot, to make a lot of difference.

CHALLENGE YOURSELF TO BE DIFFERENT 
What’s wrong with being different? 
There's nothing absolutely wrong with being different, it might just be your own way of making a difference. Being different makes it an interesting world! If we were all the same, how boring would that be? People were created to be different; no two individuals are exactly the same. Everyone of us was created with an ASSIGNMENT, wired for a specific DIRECTION and designed for a special PURPOSE. When you pick up your assignment and move with it in the right direction you will unravel the purpose of your life. A man can only make a difference when he is functionally placed in his purpose. 
Many people are frustrated and stranded in life because they followed popular opinion, they wanted to feel belonged, and be like others. You want to study engineering, medicine or law because your friends told you how profitable it is, not because you were wired to do it. You want to write a book, produce a song or may be play professional football because your friend did. 
Any time a knife decides to function like a spoon frustration sets in. If you are a tooth brush, you don’t have a business on the dining table. Anytime you are operating where God did not position you to function, pain and struggles become a lifestyle. Dare to be different but remain natural; because no one can beat original.

10 PROVEN STEPS TO MAKING A DIFFERENCE
1. Identify your purpose and meaning in life
2. Make a decision to seek out opportunities to be kind - one of the surest ways to make a difference in life is to show kindness to people.
3. Maintain the desire to make a positive difference in your world.
4. Lead the way and set a positive example. Be the change you wish to see in the world!
5. Respect and value other people
6. Listen to what other people have to say. People crave for attention. People feel loved when given attention.
7. Stick up for other people when they are treated unfairly.
8. Stay optimistic in good times and in bad times.
9. Make learning a part of your everyday experience. 
10. Attempt to lift others while you ascend.


Conclusion 
When you were born you were given the gift of life, may to-day be the day that you accept that gift. Realize that you were designed for accomplishment, engineered for success and endowed with the seeds of greatness. Strip off your suit of worry and despair, put on the armour of belief and enthusiasm then march boldly into life.
Take no timid steps!
Make no timid moves!
Think no timid thoughts! 
Dare to become all you are capable of becoming!
Dare to change your life from making a living to making a difference!
Dare to put smiles in the face of people around you!
Dare to make to be the difference!


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God bless you plenty.
Stay Blessed!
Ahaoma Charles Ebere 
ACE Visible Inspirations - Together we can inspire our world.
My name is Ahaoma Charles Ebere(ACE) I love to inspire people about life, Success, relationships and God. I'm here to share my thoughts, experiences, opinions, creativity and passion; above all, I hope to be a formidable source of inspiration to your life. Feel free to comment and share your views, am willing to learn from you. Thank you for visiting...

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